I am also a cadet at Ramona High. We have had ruffly 3-4 command changes over the past year!!! So be happy you even have a programe as ours was under threat of being shut down. And as for your problem, If you join the military you are going to have to deal with CO's that you don't like so if you cant handle it in high school, you should probably not join the military, but stick it out kiddo, it will make u a better person for it.